MASTER FEAR AND DOUBT

MASTER FEAR AND DOUBT

Fear begins to melt when you take action towards a goal you really want.

                                                                          

                                                                                                     R.G.A

There are two inborn killers of great achievements, they are- fear and doubt.

We are all born with amnesia; every new born baby can’t remember anything about what happened in the womb. But the only thing that every baby came with is the two natural fears of falling and loud noise. This two fears are healthy and essential for our survival, while every other fear is unnatural, unhealthy and learnt artificially.

To master every artificially learnt fear is another principle of riches and wealth. People who have accomplish amazing things have had to master there fears. It’s not that this people had no fears, but they mastered their fears to achieve success.

 I will list and explain some of these fears.

i.                    Fear of the unknown

ii.                  Fear of failure

iii.                Fear of rejection

iv.               Fear of loss of money

v.                 Fear of death

vi.               Fear of old age  

FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN

Fear of the unknown is very insidious and subtle, it causes under achievement. No matter how human’s try they can’t tell what will happen in the future. Humans can’t tell what joys and sorrows life bring, they just don’t know. As the song goes “No one knows tomorrow”. This brings fear to many people making them play life safe not wanting to take any risk because they don’t know what will happen if they do. This is the fear of the unknown.

(Personally I think that the fear of the unknown is a good thing because I believe that my billion dollars will come from people I don’t known, and so will yours)

I also think that life and risk go together; almost every part of life has risk. Even people who fear taking financial risk and who remain poor have the risk of not being able to take care of themselves and to struggle through life

FEAR OF FAILURE

This is another fear that stops people from achieving riches and wealth. Every successful person has had to master this fear. This people know that the way we learn or accomplish anything is by failing a few times before we gain mastery.

I have never seen a skilled painted come out of the womb with a paint brush and a beautiful work of art in hand. Or a skilled doctor, come out at birth performing live saving surgery. They all have to train make a few mistakes, before they become successful. This is natural.

Poor people fear failure so much that they fail in life in the process. Forgetting that to fail is the way we learn, as Robert allen said “there is no failure only feed back”.

Christopher Columbus fail to find a rout to the indices but found America. Abraham Lincoln failed so many times before he became president, Thomas Edison I talk about earlier failed 10,000 times before he invented the light bulb. Dr Alexander Graham Bell fails to find a means to invent a hearing aid for his wife but invented the long distance telephone. The list will go on and on. But one thing that is common to all successful people is that, they did not find it easy to achieve anything, but despite this they did succeed.

I have to admit that failing is a painful experience and as I said humans run from pain and embrace pleasure. Since failing brings pain, it also brings fear which many people run away from. This makes them to accept poverty and mediocrity, instead of riches and wealth.

To master fear one must know that, the only way to accomplish anything to the level of excellence one must fail first.

FEAR OF REJECTION

This is an acquired fear that plaque many people. This fear was acquired from an early age. When babies are born they are the adorable kings and queens of the house and they rule their kingdom with an iron little fist. All their needs and wants are attended to by their parents, and if they don't get what they  want all hell breaks loss by crying their lungs out. As time goes on the babies come to expect that whatever they ask for they will get by crying. When the child gets to age 3- 5, things start to change. Every whim and cry is not cared for as it used to be. The babies stop being in control, the parents use rejections to put the baby in its place, just to make the baby behave. After 3 to 5 years of the baby being the boss of the house, it is now forced to be the servant of the parents. To enforce the law on the little fellows the parents will use multiple rejections on the child, thus making the child to develop the fear of rejection.

Let’s fast forward to the future when the child becomes an adult and starts a business which requires that he or she sells products or services to customers and as you know some customers must reject the product or service, this awakens that old subconscious fear of rejection.

FACE YOUR FEARS

To master fear one must have to face the fear. Every one of the outstanding achievers on this planet who has accumulated riches has had to face his or her fear. In the book Road To Wealth written by Robert .G. Allen, says that the second secret to wealth is to “face your fears”.

FEAR AND DOUBT

Fear and doubt are two sides of the same coin, when one has fears, doubt must follow. This is a key reason why people choose a life of lack over a life of abundance. They doubt themselves, they doubt their abilities and they believe that other successful people are better than them and they themselves are worthless.

To succeed in life one must root out any acquired FEAR and DOUBT.